In this powerful and uplifting episode, we meet MJ, a vibrant SoulCycle instructor whose journey from the classroom to the cycling studio is as moving as it is motivational. MJ opens up about navigating imposter syndrome, surviving rejection during SoulCycle’s intense audition process, and ultimately finding joy, belonging, and self-worth through fitness and community.

We talk Taylor Swift rides, London life, and how themed classes became a safe haven for connection. MJ shares personal stories about overcoming bullying, leaving alcohol behind, and embracing his LGBTQ+ identity with confidence and clarity. Through therapy and self-love, MJ has transformed his life—and now helps others do the same, one ride at a time.

Expect laughter, inspiration, and a raw, heartfelt conversation about growth, identity, and what it truly means to show up for yourself.

We cover:

• Leaving education for a career in fitness
• SoulCycle auditions, rejection, and rising again
• Building belonging through Taylor Swift rides
• LGBTQ+ identity, bullying, and embracing self-worth
• Imposter syndrome, therapy, and mental health
• Quitting alcohol, finding love, and rediscovering joy
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Key Quotes:

• “I am an amazing instructor.”
• “Maybe alcohol isn’t for me.”
• “You’re amazing the way you are.”

Chapters

00:00 - From Classroom to Spin Studio: A Bold Transition

02:28 - The Audition Experience: Facing Rejection

04:49 - Finding Joy in Cycling: A New Beginning

07:12 - The Performative Aspect of Fitness Instruction

09:19 - Authenticity in Teaching: Being Real with Riders

11:41 - The Taylor Swift Connection: Building Community

15:02 - Exploring Future Aspirations: Beyond SoulCycle

16:51 - The Journey of a Teacher: From Passion to Burnout

30:06 - Overcoming Imposter Syndrome: A Personal Journey

35:12 - Life in London: Balancing Work and Social Life

38:42 - A Night Out Gone Wrong

42:57 - Reflections on Alcohol and Belonging

46:42 - Learning to Love Myself

52:44 - Finding Love Again

1:04:23 - Celebrating Joy in Relationships

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